Don’t Ignore Men, They Have Tears Hidden in Smiles

The image that most men in today’s society show is the total reverse of what lies deep inside them, the inner them. They have mastered the socialization skills where they wake up from tears full of burdens and wear on their coy smiles and set off for the day’s duty calling regardless of the burden of pain they hide.

Apparently, many people as well as organisations have come to the aid of the embattled boy-child however, nothing seems to get better, situations are really falling into carnivorous animals’ teeth that continue to tear them apart.

In a nutshell, as much as men try to play their cards well in order to fulfil the desires of their spouses, the spouse is on the other hand working hard to take everything from these pillars of the society. 

Divorce has lately been on the rise as a major destruction tool breaking men and marriages each single day. Standing in the chambers of a court of law against someone you called the love of your life, what changed?

Both men and women sat down critically and analysed that women need to be given humane and fair treatment. 

Sadly, the corridors of justice tend to leave most men in distress returning them back to square one at times losing all they tirelessly worked for.

The laws that men sat down and made with good intentions are now haunting them without anyone considering the fact that when they were constituting them, they were selfless and their interests didn't really matter as those of the welfare of making a just society.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of men in society walking with the fear instilled in them and with bleeding scars from the visage of the love which they tend to share with those who reciprocate it in a different way of heart-wrenching but still stand up to the face of the world and speak of love, on which the creator's principles are firmly rooted.

Behind the dark bars of the jail, lie men who never did anything wrong to warrant such sufferings. Though not a surprise, many of them have been falsely accused of rape or sexual harassment to teens below the age of 18, and the question comes, how comes he made the laws and goes on to completely ignore them?

In many instances, they are innocent gents but they’re vindicated for crimes they never committed.

That doesn't however rule out the fact that there are crooks who misbehave and mess up our young generation.

Their massive love which does not apply to all but to a majority, turns out to be a weapon to destroy them, since society never wants men to open up, the struggler really squeezes them to the extent they develop mental breakdowns as research has proven that annually, a high number of men die out of suicide due to mental illness.

The ability to open up can be achieved since it’s a behaviour and changes happen to them, but there is no one around willing to talk to men and help them out of their thousands of thoughts which they are out of control, if one happens to fall in a trap of that he opens up and seeks help, he is highly condemned, brushed off, teased or even criticized by the same society or persons they sought aid from.

The anguish and distress can no longer be assumed, the coy smile is literally falling and something ought to be done promptly to support men who struggle or else society will face the consequences of losing real fighters of the world and solution providers to challenges facing mankind.

Let us forget about equality for a moment and try to build one another, and the equality we all are fighting for will present itself in a more mutual way. Let us give humanity a chance to lead the way and not the selfish interest of pride-filled societies.